I had a client recently asking for advice on how to reconnect with her husband.

She was married with children and was worried that her husband might be cheating on her.

She told me that she had noticed that her husband had been pulling away for a while and she felt disconnected from him. When attempting to speak with him about it, he appeared to shut down and didn’t have much to contribute to the conversation. He was constantly keeping busy with tasks making it difficult to connect.

She admitted to me that she had had an emotional affair with someone years ago, and had eventually told her husband. She now believed he may be cheating on her and wanted to know if that was true.

She explained his behavior which, on the surface to the logical brain, was in line with someone who may be cheating. Withdrawal, low interest in communicating, keeping busy, etc.

When I connected to my guides I asked them to show me where he was at that moment, and what he was feeling.

They immediately showed him doing chores, and sent me the feelings he was having. And what I saw and felt from them was not what I expected.

Her husband was not cheating on her and wasn’t even considering it.

He had actually taken the information his wife had shared with him a while before (that she had had an emotional affair with someone, but that it was over) and had started losing his self-confidence, questioning his worthiness.

Instead of currently being in a place of anger or having feelings of retaliation, he was withdrawing to protect himself and because he had started feeling shame himself. He had been wondering what he had done to cause her emotional affair and was feeling helpless.

He had begun to take on more chores and tasks to distract him from reality and keep his mind busy so he didn’t have to address what had happened.

When I shared this with my client she was blown away and asked what she could do to bring them closer together.

My guides shared that for one, by encouraging him to talk about what he was feeling (or what he was blocking out) that he would start to be able to process what had happened, regain trust in himself and his wife, and begin healing.

They suggested he find someone he could process this through with, a professional (or me as a channel) so that he had a safe neutral outlet to express what he had been suppressing, and work through and heal the feelings that were causing him to shut down and withdraw.

Knowing the truth reduces assumptions, anxiety, and fear and presents the opportunity to truly heal.

And there’s no getting away from the truth with my guides. Truth transcends perception and even the lies we tell ourselves and they know it all.